So I climbed down off the tree thinking everything was done and dusted but once you’ve gone through the mythscape it will continue to give you insights going forward. This particular one came from a dream in which I was working harmoniously with my little brother to create something together. Sounds pretty normal only I have never really had that kind of dream before. In all my dreams about my brother I have been trying to control the situation. This is the task I was handed as the elder sibling in my family.
It strikes me that the one way I did not look at the Norse gods was as a family. They are a family with all the traumas most families have, there is Loki the little brother competing with siblings for attention. He can’t get the love or respect he wants easily do he resorts to manipulation and guile. The fawn response of a traumatized child. Then we have Thor equally perplexed by as to why the all-father sometimes seems to prefer Loki for his adventures and he approaches most solutions with his hammer, the fight response. The whole family makes Loki the scapegoat for all their ire. Odin is the absent parent more often than not.
I grew up in the remnants of an authoritarian family system, where the father’s needs and feelings had first priority. My father was probably more approachable than his father but the subtext was still the same. Boys needs before girls and parents needs before children’s. My response was very Loki like but then I in tern was leader or perhaps bully to my younger siblings. The patterns we see in childhood are the ones we will likely see again in our adult relationships unless we become aware enough to break them. My parents were trying to break theirs, trying to keep the violence out of their home that they grew up with but the emotional patterns where still there. What I see now is people who were trying to love each other but did not really know how. The mystery for me is to discover what love really is and how it works.
I learned a lot about family systems psychology from John Bradshaw and one of the influences he always mentioned was Alice Miller. Among her theories was that the child rearing practices in the German family of those times created fertile ground for the German state in WWII. The theory being that if you grew up with a totalitarian regime at home then why would you not accept that as the natural order out in the world.
The Norse myths do something interesting in posing Ragnarok not as the ultimate end but as a rebirth point for a repeating cycle. So it is with generations of children and parents each trying to correct the mistakes of their ancestors and learn new things along the way. I sometimes think of this as a pendulum one generation pulls the pendulum one way and then the next pushes it the other and so we are continually trying to find balance and evolution. One wonders what Odin has learned since those early days.
Myths work on many levels and where the idea of a repeating apocalypse came from is an interesting one. One of the more striking theories that I have come across is put forward by Alexandra Witze and points towards volcanic activity in early Iceland as a source for the myths catastrophic imagery. If you think of Loki not just as a god of fire but a god of volcanic fire then he makes a lot more sense. A god who is bound under the earth slowly building in furious pressure. Volcanoes also repeat their eruptions sometimes with years of dormancy in between. I have dealt mostly with the gods as representatives of human conundrums society and individuals face but it should also be remembered that they have this titanic aspect.
I am not sure how to sum all of this up. All I can say is that diving into the world of myth is very illuminating as an experience. You learn about culture and people and yourself. You could hang on the tree for nine days or nine years or indeed ninety years and still not learn all there is to learn. If you have not looked at the stories of your ancestors perhaps go back and see what is there waiting for you.